I have a few questions that readers have asked repeatedly. In this section I will answer those questions. Do you have a question? Email me and I will answer your question.

 

1. What does your husband think of his family doing this? The answer is absolutely nothing. He is fine with it all. There was once a time when he would stand up for me as his wife and stand up for his children. But through this event, he has shown that he will not do that. I think he feels that his parent is mentally unwell and his dad would not want him to react or abandon her. That’s the thing about my husband. He’s either level 1 or 10, there is no between. Nobody said he would abandon her, but even for him to request some accountability, he cannot do that. He sees her as a child with mental illness. (I am just being honest) because some have come down harshly on my husband. He is a great man, but where she is concerned, he is not capable.

• Left me clarify when I say he is “fine” he knows she will not reverse what she did, so he has convinced himself to see it as..”I don’t want any of my dads stuff, I want him” which is true for everyone. He knows signing the renouncement was wrong and if he could go back, he said he would not have signed it.

As for his aunts, he just said this is the way it’s always been. They grew up in a different time, and these actions were acceptable then. He asked me if one of my uncles had done something like this, how would I expect him to react? I said well, if you had gone above and beyond to create a personal relationship with that uncle for our entire marriage, then you were lied to and this entire situation occurred. I would stand by you and understand because you are my husband.

Let me explain, when I say I always went above and beyond, It is true! Anyone can tell you that.

1. What about the Money, what if some say that is what this is about? My husband asked this question. I haven’t had any readers ask this. But I will explain. I said who would ask this question, your mom and aunts? He said Well the question is “what does she want, what doesn’t she have?”  That really struck me. The real question is why did his mom go through like the grinch that stole Christmas and take every single thing. I have described these three like a bunch of vultures when someone passes away. there is no empathy. Just stuff and who gets what. It all must be equal. Isn’t that funny. I do have other examples, so if I am tested- I will share. But for now I will give Facts:

• First, when my father-n-law passed, (2018) I knew she did something screwy. But I let it go for the family. I asked the aunt, lie or not, she said it was fine. I believed it was fine. I let it go.

• Second, when we received the renunciation document from the notary (2023, five years later) I never said anything about it. I let it go.

• Third, the stolen document (2024, 1 year after)

So, 6 years passed, I already knew about what she did, but now all of the sudden I want to make a fuss about money? Why? It’s never been about the money. So let me clarify what it is about.

• She never stops, if she can steal and deceive her only child, then accuse me of wanting to kill her son when I get life insurance on him. Then come into my home and take the document while leaving trash documents. Instead of acknowledging the document signing ever even happened, she would rather call me crazy. When she put my physical safety in jeopardy with my husband by having him think I am losing my mind to cover up her lies and secrets. That’s the issue. Her demonic behavior has made her incapable of knowing the truth. Then throw in the two sisters who support all her actions.

 

2. Why did the sisters condone her doing this? The answer is birds of a feather flock together. That’s what I asked my husband too. Why didn’t these aunts protect him? They love him right? But they sat aside and according to his parent they both knew he renounced.

 

3. So what is the dollar amount? Who knows. We will never know. But according to the clerk of court, he should only have gotten $330,000.00 which why would she risk all this for that amount of money. Answer is, she wouldn’t. There will never be a world where I believe that the man who loved his son and grandchildren more than life itself, left them nothing. That is a Lie! He would never leave everything to her. The will said life insurance policies went to his son and closest descendants. as you can see in the document below my mother-n-law already had the power to give out what was in the trust. But that wasn't good enough. She wanted it all with no accountability.  If it went in the trust, she was held accountable for what was in it. But by him renouncing she has the freedom to do whatever she wants (in her mind). Everything became hers even though by law it belongs to our adult kids. All she did was eliminate her son. That's the real joke here. 

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4. why then? ask her.  so she can give gifts and pretend she's is wonderful.  its a form of control. It is actually a straight pass to hell.  

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